Lik is my roommate and my first friend in London. When I told her that I liked Rope Bondage and needed a lot of practice, Lik showed great interest and was willing to try it. We were watching a movie when this photo was taken, and I tried to tie her upper body to her in a private and cozy environment (TK, “Takate Kote” is the name of this rope bondage way). I don’t feel nervous in a private and safe space, and neither does Lik, her body is relaxed. After trying it, Lik told me that she likes it very much, firstly because she feels very comfortable leaning on others, and secondly because I will pay attention to her needs after helping, She doesn’t have to worry about anything, just needs to tell me her feeling and I can help. For example, if Lik’s glasses need to be adjusted, I will help adjust them immediately because Lik’s hands are tied. If she feels thirsty, I will immediately get her a drink, etc.
Ben(They/Them,21)
This is the second time I’ve seen Ben and the second time I’ve tied them up. Ben does like rope bondage but they are really shy. The first time I was supposed to try rope bondage, Ben asked “Me???”. But I tried it anyway with the encouragement of my friends. After the first try, they told me it felt good and that I could try a tighter and more complicated binding next time, and that I was welcome to practice on them. As you can see from the photos, we are in a cozy corner of our house. I put the bag over Ben’s face to make him more relaxed. Ben told me I made him less shy after doing this. Another photo is of me giving Ben some coke, I think I was totally a waiter when I was tying someone up! I will care very much about the feelings of the tied people, I want to provide them with the most considerate service and do my best to give them the best experience.
(Momo, She/Her,22)
Momo is a fan of bondage but hadn’t tried any before meeting me. After I practiced bondage on her, she found that she really enjoyed the process. I tried new materials to practice on her – rubber bands I use at the gym! Because of rope bondage Momo and I became good friends and she would come to my house for bondage when she was feeling anxious and troubled. Because bondage restricts her movement, it also allows her to forget about her worries for a while and relaxes her body.
Senkwok(He/him,25)
After I tied up Senkwok, he felt very confident. And took a lot of photos in the bedroom, living room, and yard at home. Senkwok and I, as well as our friends who took photos of us, were very happy that day.
Xiaonaizi(She/her,23)
It was a fun experience! I tied up my friend Xiaonaizi at her birthday party. It was my first time practicing rope bondage in a chaotic and noisy environment. Xiaonaizi had no negative opinion about rope bondage and was willing to try it in such an environment. I didn’t tie her too tightly, considering she needed to keep moving. This was Xiaonaizi’s first time trying rope bondage and she felt good.
(Jiji Wei,She/her,25)
Jiji has been interested in trying rope bondage since she heard I could do it. I took a lot of interesting pictures of her after I tied her up. She thought she looked like a non-player character in this picture.
(Francis, They/Them,25)
Francis is open-minded and eager to try. I tied him up the quick and easy way and he said he felt a little uncomfortable at first because the rope was positioned tightly between his legs.
